DY, I didn’t mean to make it sound black and white.
Generally speaking, I think a shadchan should have met both before setting it up.
But I won’t rule it out because, as you note, sometimes it does work. Hashem has many ways of splitting the sea.
DY, I didn’t mean to make it sound black and white.
Generally speaking, I think a shadchan should have met both before setting it up.
But I won’t rule it out because, as you note, sometimes it does work. Hashem has many ways of splitting the sea.