well it’s not a good place to “vent”, they can still hear us and be turned off by rants.� We have to always always keep the audience in mind, tearing people apart for things they don’t know about or understand is a shove out the door. I actually just heard a rav give a source for this in a parsha shiur. I will try to remember Bez”H, who and what.
a great idea: Find some way to get Joseph’s number, I think he’d be thrilled to chat with you.