Dont get me wrong;
The Gemara says that there’s a bone in the neck that takes nutrition only from the “Seudas Melaveh Malka”
and that bone doesn’t disintegrate, and from that bone we will rise
T’chiyas Hameisim.
I don’t recall anything about that having a/t 2do w/ havdallah wine.
Tomche; we say it as I wrote it, separately not with ha’mav’dil.
Minhag is pants pockets, i put in my jacket pockets as well,
since i don’t want them feel left out. I’m caring, that way.