mamish some people make the mistake of sitting in kollel for twenty then wake up when its time for shidduchim and regret all that time spent learning when they could have been earning a parnassah. well all those out there like that should know hakadosh boruch hu had you in mind when he put welfare in fdr’s head and g-d was also behind the concept of cope and other such programs to help the struggling yungerman wake up and see the real world for himself and provide for himself and his family.
sincerely the rebbe