Reply To: Is there a tactful way to say Shadchan prefers money? Home › Forums › Decaffeinated Coffee › Is there a tactful way to say Shadchan prefers money? › Reply To: Is there a tactful way to say Shadchan prefers money? January 29, 2014 11:03 pm at 11:03 pm #1003207 squeakParticipant No, there is no tactful way to be gauche.