Reply To: Frum way to propose Home › Forums › Decaffeinated Coffee › Frum way to propose › Reply To: Frum way to propose April 3, 2014 6:38 am at 6:38 am #1010361 renters (Joseph)Member The frum way is to do it b’tznius. Nothing loud or unusual. The idea of making a big deal out of it does not stem from Torah culture.