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If you’re insulted, I’m very sorry, I didn;t imagine for a moment you would be. Because:

I do not look down at anyone for how much they learn, or work.

YOU said that you’re not so into learning. Torah is the inheritance of every Jew, and there’s no one who can’t have a part. I wasn’t commenting on the amount that works for you, but on the fact that you said that its not for you. That’s a nebach. If someone is blind, its a nebach that they can’t learn (lets say), right ? They’re not to blame, they’re wonderful, but they’re missing out on an important part of yiddishkeit. And there you could say its clearly what G-d wants from them. But everyone can learn (unless they can’t – nebach). A learning disability is a nebach, no ?

I’m not judging, and this has nothing to do with being yeshivish, or learning vs. working.

You’re putting yourself in a different category, and want validation (I know, not from me) for that. But I say that you’re working doesn’t put you in a different category at all, and that that attitude closes you off from one of the most important experiences a Yid has. So who’s putting who down ?