She should voice her opinion and do not get parents involved until after you talk because one side may forgive but a parent always remembers try to talk be open and say what she feels going to his rabbi is a plan b if talking has not resolved anything but people should talk and get it out and just because she grew up that way or he did does not mean its ok now if you guys make up your mind about something and one side starts changing then the other side should voice there concern if something religious-wise bothers you, you should voice your concern because small things tern into bigger things im not saying that i agree with watching movies of not all im saying is if something bothers you then voice your opinion and like others said try not to turn it into a fight
