Fny, you may not be saying it, but are we forbidden to say that women are more sensitive, and that the reason the default is how it is is so that if there’s a no, the boy suffers it and not the girl?
As I recall, this protocol was the norm before we understood age gap (although it’s possible that the greater chance of a girl saying yes was already observed, just not understood).
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