Reply To: average shadchan rates? Home › Forums › Shidduchim › average shadchan rates? › Reply To: average shadchan rates? December 19, 2011 6:52 pm at 6:52 pm #1114769 passfanMember aries: You are mistaken. Halacha clearly, and specifically, states a shadchan must be paid the market rate for making a shidduch.