Reply To: Shidduchim & "The Boys' Mother" Home › Forums › Shidduchim › Shidduchim & "The Boys' Mother" › Reply To: Shidduchim & "The Boys' Mother" January 10, 2016 7:48 pm at 7:48 pm #1122897 ?RebYidd23Participant The problem is that the mother doesn’t necessarily know what her son wants.