Reply To: Shidduch Segullah! Home › Forums › Shidduchim › Shidduch Segullah! › Reply To: Shidduch Segullah! May 1, 2009 3:48 am at 3:48 am #1150737 DanishMember I’m not saying that nothing should be done about the shidduchim,but i’m just saying you cant prevent an 18, or 19 year girl from dating if shes ready.