Reply To: Shidduch Segullah! Home › Forums › Shidduchim › Shidduch Segullah! › Reply To: Shidduch Segullah! May 1, 2009 1:44 pm at 1:44 pm #1150741 anonymisssParticipant Hmm… Don’t people marry the person that God decided they will marry 40 days before they were born? This is really confusing to me. ~a~