it’s not normal, or human nature to have 2 ppl agree all the time, or one always saying OK we’ll do it your way this time. there has to be one boss!
Of course Eeees and I disagree on some issues. But when we do disagree we work it out — and no one makes a preemptive move to undermine the other until the matter is decided. We work things out with discussion and compromise. Neither my wife nor I will *ever* unilaterally overrule the other on any major decision.
If that’s not the Torah ideal, then I don’t know what is.
The Wolf