Reply To: How do I stop my wife spending??! Home › Forums › Decaffeinated Coffee › How do I stop my wife spending??! › Reply To: How do I stop my wife spending??! September 2, 2016 10:20 pm at 10:20 pm #1177123 JosephParticipant You just tell her, “dear, you need to cut back the spending by 25%” or whatever limit you wish to set.