W.O.W., you just can’t judge or try to figure out what will get through to him or what won’t. You just have to try and since you are speaking at him instead of with him it is best to write him a note. A note he can read when he chooses and as often as he likes. Things might slip out in speech or heard incorrectly. A note can be read incorrectly true, but then it can be read again when one is in a different frame of mind. It can be read quickly or slowly. It can be read when one needs more support or less. Keep the notes and letter coming. Keep sending notes filled with love and support, but still write what your own perspective as well. As long as it is not about religion it is fine. Always speak about your love and how special he is to you. Always tell him that you love him no matter what, because he is part of your heart and soul, he is part and parcel of you and that can’t change no matter what choices he makes, and no matter what clothes he wears.
