Yiddishkite says all jewish newshamas are precious and must be educated in yehsiva
Frumkeite – I dont want MY kid in a yeshiva with THAT kid because his parents have internet and I dont want MY kid infected with such shtus
What you’ve just described is a dilemma which every mossad has – how ti balance the needs of all Jewish children.
Of course, it would be wonderful if all children would be accepted to whichever school they wanted, and nobody would ever be negatively influenced by others. But that’s not what happens.
You may feel that exclusivity is callous to those neshomos who need to find another school, but you’re ignoring the fact that accepting certain kids might be callous to other neshamos.
Do RY and menahalim make mistakes, or even err because of bias? Of course. But that not “frumkeit”, that’s “humankeit”.