lilmod ulelamaid- in dating, how is it possible to never hurt someone, however much you try?
Say you’ve got out with a guy 5 times, or so, and he’s really starting to like, and is under the impression things are going well. But you’re not feeling it. So you end it. He’ll be hurt, and no amount of words or mechila will change that.
This is the risk we take when we date and allow ourselves to get emotionally involved.