This reminds me of a real embarrassing story that happened to me, though not on a date. We have a girl in our office that is not frum – We will call her Sara. Right near me sits a Lubavitch girl that is eavily involved in Kiruv. SO I wanted to instant message the Lubavitch girl about Sara. Accidently since I was thinking about sara, I clicked sara’s name and started to send a message.
I wrote – Is sara jewish
Sara – yes.
me – so why dont you get to work.
Sara – what do you mean
me – you know what to do, your work
sara – why are you talking in riddles
me- about becoming frum
Then Sara truned away from her computer to look at me, she asked me outright, I dont understand what you are trying to say.
By that time I realized my mistake and I was mortified. I quickly tried to cover up and was happy that I didnt write anything more straight out. SInce then I made it my business to be extra nice to sara. Until she commited a terrible crime and was asked to leave the office. I dont know what she is up to today. But I am very very careful when I text message, instant message or send an e-mail. I am sort of parinoid.