Avocado…you say the boys NEVER look the same in real life as they do in their pictures. Does that mean the girls photos are considerably more realistic and only the bochurim photoshop their images and act contrary to the way you expected on the picture??
P.S. How do you know how a bochur will act based on a photo other than if the photo itself shows him engaged in some wierd behavior inappropriate for a shiduch photo?