Reply To: hard time in shiduchim. Home › Forums › Decaffeinated Coffee › hard time in shiduchim. › Reply To: hard time in shiduchim. September 27, 2020 5:46 pm at 5:46 pm #1905144 Reb EliezerParticipant I made a shidduch together with my wife a’h, where I knew the groom and she the bride, so see if you can do the same.