Syag, I didn’t realize OP was a kid – my tone was harsh because I thought it was yet another parent sacrificing a child on the altar of education, success and haskalah.
I teach children of these backgrounds and I’m nothing but patient and understanding; I try to slip in an idea here and there to stimulate independent thought, but I am respectful of whoever I encounter in my work, even an unmarried couple with children who I spent hours consulting to get them to keep their children in a Yeshiva.
Online I like to vent frustration at times; I don’t mean to target anyone particularly