Kuvult, not only do 10 year old non frum kids play differently, they live completely different lives. That was true when i was a kid, and is even more true now, with twisted gender, alphabet soup ideology being fostered onto preschoolers.
When i was a kid, if you didn’t want your 10 year old to have a Gameboy, want to watch TV, movies, etc, you would keep him away from people who had those things.
In our time, 10 year old kids have smartphones, or at least access to them. They do play very, very differently than yeshiva kids.