I would like to think it is only tremendous pressure that would drive someone to do something so humiliating.
And therefore I would like to think that all these cases are one of great rachmanus and we should give accordingly.
That said, since I know of the �minhag� of some people in EY demanding that the Kallahs side by an apartment for the couple, it is difficult for me. Bc I didn�t buy my kids houses, so why would I buy some other kid real estate?
