“Speak to Rabbonim in the parsha and they can sadly inform you what�s going on.”
I have, thats why I’m convinced such a support system is necessary.
“Most otherwise frum men with SSA do not engage in mishkov zochor. And, likewise, most otherwise frum men with a taaiva for eishes ish do not engage in that.”
Exactly! nailed it
thats why the two aren’t comparable. The former struggle/have issues whether they engage or not
the latter not so much.
“But this Chazal isn�t even necessary to consider to accept my preceding points.”
Ive already accepted your point
“but ok, I�m convinced if they do they do start the club”
No need to convince me further.
If you think its needed go for it. Start it