@ Reb Eliezer
The main point of the question that you seen to be purposely avoiding is if it�s always more important to go to someone who�s a mentch. Can you just answer the question? We can discuss later on if it�s a comparable parable or not.
I have no idea what you were trying to convey in the next two posts. If you reword them I�ll be happy to discuss it with you.