@square_root, you asked:
Why do the Chareidi anti-Zionists not cry when they
hear that �OUR soldiers� have been killed?
We jews have been crying over the deaths of heretical Jews long before these evil men men became soldiers.
Regarding your Artscroll quotes, I don’t see any chidush that Rav Aurbach ztz”l cried over the deaths of “Jewish” American soldiers like earlier gedolim cried over the deaths of “Jewish” cantonist soldiers, “Jewish” polish soldiers, and “Jewish” kapos in the nazi ghettos and camps.