qwerty: “I�d like to apologize for the things I said to you last year.”
No problem. But a request and a word of advice: please stop using invectives and name-calling (e.g. Menace Friedman). It waters down the strength of what you write because it makes it sound childish.
yankel berel: “the question , to sechel , should be , and that�s arso�s intention [hope to have gotten this right] was there a change in schar va �onesh , or not, not whether there was a change in circumstances”
Yes, exactly. The rules stay the same, and they apply equally to each individual. It’s just that each individual is judged on his abilities, his personality and his circumstances, all of which are orchestrated by Hashem. And it has always been that way.