Yedl – “The words �low benefit kiruv� hurt me, because I am only frum today because a Lubavitcher Chassid was Mekarev my grandfather in 1960. Am I a low benefit?”
Reb Yedl, many (not all, or even most) of the people here aren’t interested in sincere and meaningful discussion. They want a “rage room” where they can vent their steam without revealing their real identity and therefore with no consequences. The “problem” is they understand that isn’t so Kosher, so the “solution” is to find some ???? ?????? who is “???? ???? ?????” according to them, and therefore “fair game” for Lashon Hara, Onaas Devorim, etc. The three most popular choices are “Zionists”, “Neturei Karta”, or Lubavitch. (Not that I equate the three groups.) It has nothing to do with you, and not much to do with them either.