Koifer Bikur – There is nothing inherently wrong with a fancy wedding if the mechutanim can afford it. You speak as if it’s an aveirah, and you are ‘disappointed’ with the ‘lack of leadership’. When Gedolei Yisroel speak out against things that ARE actually aveiros, or at least way more problematic [including things the peanut gallery hold dear…] are you then happy that they DO show leadership?
