Azoi.is- then the hanhala should find a way to pay for these kids’ education and not force it on the rest of the klal. Person A stayed in kollel and now cannot support his family’s needs. Person B left kollel/yeshiva to get a job/education for a job and now works. He can meet his family’s needs but no extras. Should person B put themselves into debt to support A? At times one must leave kollel or work an extra shift to be able to pay for their own kids’ needs. Person B shouldnt have to take a second job to pay for person A.
GAW- What I meant by “anyways” is that each person should do their best for their own family. that is what we really disagree on… If I cant afford (and no- my family didnt go to the mountains this summer, do not own a vacation home and didnt go on any real vacation this summer. no one is the age to go to sleep away camp to be honest.) It should not be required for others to pay for my tuition or for anyone elses, unless they can afford it easily and want to give it to that tzeddaka. No one is “required” to give tzeddaka to any one institution as long as they do “family before others, their community before outside ect”. I think I misread part of it but still we disagree on some things…