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You took my comment all wrong! Bzayas Apecha is a curse, what originally was meant to happen was that we would sit and learn torah and bask in the shechinah. The more someone works- an 80 hr work week- the more of the curse he is taking upon himself. The only way to throw off the curse is by sitting and learning. No we should not sit idly, but my point was in reference to whoever said something about bzayas apecha. The ladies by wanting to be equal with men- did indeed take a second curse upon themselves. As for Shayvet Zevulun- once the Klalah was there, they had to work and decided to get Schar for it and to also throw it off as much as possible. I heard this from Chashuve Rabbis- but it is not Halachah L’moshe Misinai- and there are 70! different ways to explain things. If you do not like my explanantion, there are 69 others out there!