Almost any 2 people in the world can make a marriage work if they have both had a decent upbringing and possess good midos,tolerance,the ability to compromise,and a healthy sense of humor.When the pattern develops:disrespect,domination,verbal abuse(sometimes physical abuse)-and then keeps escalating….when the one who brings this into the marriage gets support instead of the increasingly distressed victim…real suffering…real crises…divorce is the only solution…and no one in the world has the right to cause further pain by judging,guessing,and ostracizing…just speak to anyone in the parsha.
