Sof –
Are you talking about the shidduch scene here in America? Beause the last time I checked, 99% of non-chassidish dates are the go out kind (lobbys, parks, zoos, ect) and 99% of the chassidish dates are sit-ins. If you have more timely info, I’d love to know about it.
Curly – Heimsh can mean anything, but in my world (yes, sof, that menas BP) that means you / he will wear the chassidish levush, but do not necessarily belong to a chassidus. If that’t the case, I’ll move on to my next question