Above all – be a man. Be decisive. Have a plan. Be confident. Always ask what your spouse’s feeling are, and seriously take them into account – but be the one to make a call, and run with it. On dates – and in life. Don’t be a wimp. Give direction. Don’t ask where she wants to go. Plan out a date. Know where everything is. Have a plan B. And if something goes wrong, don’t flip out or be embarrassed. Compensate. Move forward. Be prepared – take care of her.
Be a man. A kind, sensitive, perceptive – man. Es Biti Nasati L’Ish HaZeh…