A wife need not be newly wed to do this. I am married for longer than Newly and I am still doing this, to my utmost regret, unfortunately. I think its because women think they are smarter and anyways even if we’re not we enjoy arguing.
But seriously now, speaking for myself at least I can say that people can make mistakes and husbands aren’t perfect.
Every girl /women/wife needs to read the book “Women’s Wisdom” by Rav Shalom Arush. Has changed my attitude.