Have been having bochurim for 13 years, depends alot on wifes tzniyus, have seen (by others) enough times the bochurim trying to shmooze with the lady of the house. It is a known fact young couples espec shud not party together. This stuff is basic.Arayos is alot bigger then the actual aveirah, and anyone here making believe there is no issue at hand, is not even fooling themselves, and u know it!
