Scarlige-
im not making them into victims.i was saying that not always do they know what will be. ill never forget one person agirl i was friends with who said she hated that they had no money. she said dont tell my husband…in that case she shouldve bec now was when he needed to get a job. this is all the same girl who had a kid one right after the other and 9 months after she got married. people dont realize what really goes on and ive really really have seen it as i was a bas bayit by many of these homes!