my mother once went to a speech and the rebbitzen speaking said “why is it that ppl aren’t scared to argue (and even fight) in front of their children, but they absolutely will not show affection toward their spouse in front of the children or spend time alone together….” why let the kids see the negative, and make the positive taboo? isn’t that a little backwards? are ppl “so holy” these days that a little affection is deemed not tznius?
