Eclipse, Yes you are a nice & friendly young lady ( Or not so young, depending whether I am older or younger than you)
When you marry a second time, you are taking a foundation and building on it. Just as in construction it is very hard to find the exact match when you want to enlarge your dwelling, building onto an already existing home is also difficult, to match. Most of the time it works, but sometimes even when it doesn’t work, there can be good relationships that remain long after the marriage doesn’t. 🙂