asking is very awkward. either do or don’t, but dont ask. once a guy asked me if he should hold the door open for me. very weird! i dont really care if u do or dont, but dont ask me! when i see uncertainty in a man, that is worse for me than if he holds the door open or walks me anywhere. make your decisions and do it. its the way you do it also that either makes it awkward or not. there are ways to be smooth, you know? if you have a bit of class, you’ll pleasantly walk with your date to the door (avoiding all tznius issues this way), wish her a good night, wait till she gets in and leave! dont make it a big deal and dont make it awkward. come on, i can think of more awkward things in dating than this.
