Whats about all the expensive wedding gifts?
How can a chusen wear a $2,500 gold watch knowing that someone alse paid a months wages for it? cant he wear a nice fifty dallor one?
How can a young kallah light shabboss candles with a $1500 siver candle sticks that someone alse is having a heart attack paying for it? cant she light a in a nice $30 crystal set?