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adorable- because I’ll be asked for details… it won’t just stop there

I can only try- I’m worried that since it isn’t an issue about a chumra or being machmir, I feel disrespectful bringing it up as a chisaron… its the equivalent of the girl not covering her collar bone, not just that she doesn’t hold Rabbeinu Tam zmanim. Also I’ve never rejected somebody before so I’m worried about the person’s feelings. She’ll push for a reason from the shadchan too…