Sam2, I don’t think it helps. In fact, that would just make me more upset knowing that he gave so-and-so that big house, fur coat, house in the country and whatever and I have to live with less!
I also deal with jealousy. I dont know how I handle it except to be aware of my feelings and to try to realize what the CD in my head is playing. THen I dispell or discredit those beliefs.