If there was a Caterer in a Yeshiva with 10 kids and needed the Parnossa was suspected of cutting corners and serving non-kosher food and some knew about it because “He Needed the Parnassa” and later it was found out about it by many, There would be a ruckas raised over it. And what if the Rosh Yeshiva maybe heard the rumors that the caterer was cutting corners but chose to ignore them because he was a Baal Habatish person with 10 kids who needed the Parnassa.
Now after 10 years the truth is discovered that the caterer DID cut corners and served non-kosher food to the bocherim, Would such a Yeshiva be worth saving? everyone would be rightfully upset at the yeshiva and I doubt any would still try to pardon the offender.
And Sometimes when it comes to Kashruth some DO make accusations, maybe 5% of the accusations are true, but 95% are FALSE, but we say JUST IN CASE
So why when its an abuser do we feel like we need to coddle an abuser.
People speak about standards , standards of Kashrith, standards of Tzniut, etc, Why cant my standards be ZERO Tolerance of abusers