Reply To: My friend, the shadchan, and his issue(s)

1) Normally, I think it should be kept short. I would stress than a strong effort should be made to meet sooner, rather than postponing it.

2) You’re probably right, but you can’t be sure because you don’t know why it was called off. I don’t think checking stops until they’re engaged.

3) You’re absolutely right (in normal yeshivishe circles).