Silent One,
Before going out with any other girls, you have to get a better understanding of what marriage is all about.
I strongly suggest (and I am the furthest thing from a breslover or any kind of chossid)that you read Rav Shalom Arush’s book on marriage for men.
I was married for 20 years + when I read it and I thought I knew what marriage was about. This book changed my life and from your post above I am willing to guarantee you that it will change yours too.
Behatzlacha