Forget the zoloft!
Take B-complex.. It helped me thru postpartum depression and other bouts of depression, and a few friends I recommended it to.
B-complex will also help you think straight and have the strength.
If its really bad there is lithium oratate to help ones brain fluids to adjus, so u think and react properly..
I also have a spouse with a Jeckyl-Hyde personality.. the name of the game is save the kids. It may be wrong, but I am always sticking up for them in front of him.. and I do hope I am anonymus here as well.. If its possible you shoul take them all for therapy on how to deal with this kind of father.. I have a lot more to say, it would probably take up a page..HAZLACHA RABBA