Reply To: Dating A Gerrer Guy Home › Forums › Shidduchim › Dating A Gerrer Guy › Reply To: Dating A Gerrer Guy March 18, 2012 6:00 pm at 6:00 pm #861502 2scentsParticipant care to explain? In this case, if the boy is known to be more openminded, than it’s highly unlikely that he’ll keep these chumros.