I’m not sure what sources you are referring to which I am ignoring. I just told you how one can interpret the word “bad” in that gemara, based on my understanding. You ignored it. If you have a different interpretation, wonderful.
And not necessarily is it G-d’s intention for us to have a negative reaction. That is OUR choice. I believe that G-d hopes that we use every experience to help us grow. I CHOOSE to have a positive reaction to the things in my life. If that makes me a person who “ignores halacha”, so be it. You will never convince to start having negative reactions to the things that go on in my life. I’m waaaaaaaaaay past that.